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Monday, September 15, 2014

MAKING LOVE TO A REAL WOMAN

Making love.

It even SOUNDS sensual. Romantic thoughts... slow and soothing contact with someone very, very special.... Not an ending to a moment but a continuation of a dream come true. Reality is only you and them, neither thinking of the work that must be done tomorrow, the house that needs cleaned, or the sleep that you are missing. You are the only couple on earth and you know heaven must be just like this.

You feel every inch of their soft skin, as their body slides next to yours. The curves fit just right as you become one, joining in a most intimate way. Their body reacts, in an obvious way... no sense pretending what is being felt. The spots that they want touched, are... by various objects of desire. The temperature builds, emotions boil over as the contact of that special someone hits a peak again and again, until the peaks turn to the valleys of contentment... joy... euphoria. You sleep until awakened, by those same sensuous lips on your body.... ready to resume the passion of hours before....

Why do I say “real woman”? Won't any willing beauty do?

Of course not....

Everyone has their own image of what it takes to be a real woman. Kate Upton in a swimsuit, Halle Berry in a revealing dress, or Hillary Clinton wearing nothing but a smile all would qualify in someone's eyes. Of course, I have my own ideas....

My definition requires more than just a physical attraction, being famous, or political clout. The REAL woman has her life in control and can enjoy the pleasures of it, guilt free. She probably doesn't count calories, she doesn't shy away from an argument, or require a paycheck-loan to cover the cable bill. She is confident, articulate, and sees meeting people as an excuse to smile. She's made mistakes and learned from them. She recognizes stupidity and steers clear of those with a masters degree in it. She knows her good habits and works on her less-than-stellar ones. She's not perfect and isn't looking for perfect. She DOES want the dream though, and won't settle for less....

How would I meet someone like THAT?

I don't hang in the same circles. I guess I don't hang in ANY circles! How would I even recognize her? Divine intervention? In the line at the grocery store? A blind date?

I have no idea, but I have spent time with her type before, and it was fabulous....

Conversation was easy, sparks were often, and the heat was constant. Candles, oils, or soft music were not required, but a welcome surprise. She wasn't in my imagination, didn't need to be inflated, or plugged in. She wasn't going to be impressed by a big ego, or a sports car. I didn't need a large bank account, an exotic location, or a supply of Rohypnol.

Why no love connection?

That's a question that mystifies me to this day, although I know, deep down, that romance is only part of the totality of a relationship. It may be a larger part for some, but still just a part. Without the right timing or the opportunity to grow beyond the physical, it would stay as a comet shooting across the sky of life.... beautiful.... unforgettable.... intensicable...

….so good you have to invent new words to describe....


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2 comments:

  1. WOW.. may I just change the title to Making Love to a Man?

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  2. I agree with Sara about changing the title...Lots of men need to be taught how to make love to a real woman...They watch too much porn and haven't a clue what a woman wants and needs!

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