It's funny how time changes perspective on so many things. Life, events, music, family, almost everything changes importance or significance as the years roll on by.
I was reminded of this by the young man pictured, who happens to be in the news lately - Charles Barkley.
It wasn't through an unexpected phone call or text from Chuck, although that would be something to write about! How did he get my number? Why reach out to a stranger in Pennsylvania? Why am I asking so many questions about something that never happened???
No.... it was because so much speculation has come his way recently, and it made me smile, thinking of how differently I view Mr Barkley these days compared to when he was a terror on the basketball court.
Back in the day, I WASN'T a fan.
I'm generally not a fan of anyone that, in my eyes, acts a fool or is arrogant. Yup, I cheer more for the Barry Sanders type than the guy trying to be the center of attention. Although I agreed with Charles on his infamous quote on NOT being a role model, the rest of the time I was cheering against him.
I have to admit, I was completely, totally, and without a doubt, WRONG about him. I hope the basketball Gods didn't take my opinions to heart and keep Sir Charles from winning an NBA title!
Why the change of heart?
You only have to watch a few minutes of him on TV to see a genuine and honest human being that not only entertains, but earns the respect of anyone listening. You may not always agree with his opinions, but you gotta love his passion.
Chuck has had his share of challenges since leaving the court, but he has persevered and succeeded beyond anyone's imagination. If he can overcome that legendary golf swing of his and still enjoy the game, he can do ANYTHING!
He is able to laugh at himself constantly, and when asked a question, thinks a bit deeper than you may have expected from anyone else. He is the kind of guy you hope to have as a friend, and smart enough to have learned from his vast experience.
Charles has gone from a guy I hope loses, to one that I'm happy to see him winning in life. If I ever get to meet this young man, I surely have questions to ask - but not before I ask his forgiveness for my stupidness and lack of vision to see the man as he is... a national treasure and a one to be proud of.
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